I’ve already addressed this on the LJ community, but I thought I’d best make a general reminder post since there does seem to be a bit of through traffic from here (thank you, I love you, I’m glad my efforts are worth it).
We had an issue where some people felt that a fic was insufficiently tagged with content warnings. That’s okay and I absolutely encourage people to speak up. I don’t want people to get triggered, and that can be a hard thing to avoid on a kink meme!
However, in the course of saying that the warnings were insufficient, they were a little too disparaging about the kinks within the post in question. And that’s not okay.
Please, dear kinksters, if you feel a post needs warnings put on it, either say so without saying that the story itself is not to your tastes, or send me an email or LJ message or even an ask on here. I do get notifs for every LJ comment, and I do review them, but on occasion I can miss content that may be problematic for others because not everyone’s limits are the same.
This also applies to story listings on Pinboard: if you think a story’s rating needs changing, or a story needs more tags, or needs triggers listed, just let me know!
Long story short, YKINMKBYKIOK (Your Kink Is Not My Kink But Your Kink Is OK). Let that be your golden rule and we’ll get alone just fine.